Monday, 16 February 2009
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The Theory of Effective Reality
I have been in a severely philosophical mood of late. Many interesting little tidbits, several of which have been indelibly helpful, have risen out of life's recent, seemingly plain experiences. In the midst of this, a theory has approached me and my mind has bent itself to turning this idea to all angles. I'd like to expound on it here, hopefully to receive much needed feedback.
It's a theory of effective reality. It's massively applicable, exposes the core of the balance between human perspective and reality. But, first. I must build a foundation.
Psychology and beliefs have never been separate. Psychology, at its heart of hearts, is about exploring the human mind -- it's finding out how people think about everything and the effect of that perspective of their life. Beliefs or religions are pre-constructed patterns of thought. A person's beliefs are a matrix or a template and their thoughts are directed and focused through that matrix. In turn, those thoughts effect a person's life. The most powerful force man has is the idea; thoughts are the seeds of actions. Because thoughts are so powerful, the matrix which directs those thoughts is perhaps the only think more powerful than the thought itself, simply because what you believe controls what you think which controls how you live and die. So, to me, psychology and beliefs have been two pieces of the same life.
This is the main question. How do you discern the difference between two belief templates? Or what a good way to think and what is a bad way to think?
To answer this, I need to re-establish the credibility of reality.
I want to begin at the standpoint of relativism, namely because it is a belief centered around human perception. In essence, it relativism says whatever you choose to believe becomes reality. A big part of relativism came from the quantum physics and the study of photons. Scientist wanted to research photons as a wave, and photons appeared to be a wave. Other scientist wanted to research photons as a particle and they appeared as a particle. This brought about the philosophical question: Is reality what I want it to be at the moment?
This should be test on a larger scale as well with something more common. Say I conduct an experiment. I believe 2+2=5. Taking an empty jar, I put two paperclips inside, add two more, but I don't get five. Here, reality is disproving the notion that reality is simply what I want it to be. Indeed, reality has disproved me many other in objective and subjective experiences as well.
Evidence exists to support that there is a reality which arches over human perspective. Human's can take whatever perspective they want, but a firm reality exists apart from human perspective, and the reality will punch through human perspective like paper. (Gravity and inertia are other excellent laws beside mathematics which support this.)
Once we know reality to be credible, or at least separate and dominant over human perspective, we ask, "What is the relationship between reality and human perspective?"
Let's begin with a metaphor.
A questionable painting hangs on a wall. One critic dislikes it greatly and thinks its an insult to the world of art. Another critic loves the painting and thinks its an invaluable piece. Both critics are obviously being influenced by their own perspectives. Which is true? Is the painting good or bad? How do you tell the answer apart from their perspective? The answer could be neither of them are right. The painting might just be the work of an artist trying to make a living.
Regardless of what the critics think, there still is a reality to the painting -- a reality that is above the critics' perspective. How can you determine the reality of it? In this case, is the reality of the painting either good or bad?
A person would have to step entirely out of their perspective, and keep their perspective out of the matter, to clearly see the reality of the painting. Unfortunately, I've find stepping ENTIRELY one's perspective is unattainable, making perfect objectivity impossible. So what do you do?
You determine whether the painting is good or bad by its effects. Even though we humans cannot escape our beliefs, reality can cut through that. If the painting is bad, you will find the majority of people coming away from it bored, depressed, hurt, or discouraged. The painting will have a negative effect. Whereas if the painting uplifts, encourages, interests, and inspires, then the painting is good. The effects of the painting stand as a testament to its reality.
Unfortunately, with actual paintings, many other factors like culture and attitude effects how it received. That is why the painting is only a metaphor. With a thought matrixes or beliefs, their effects are universally the same regardless of the social influences.
How do you know the difference between a good and a bad perspective? Or even universally, how do discern the essential reality of anything
"Wisdom is known by her children."
Likewise an action, a belief, a lifestyle is shown to by its effects.
Are you being weakened or strengthened by the way you think? Do you destroy or heal people with your actions? What effect is your lifestyle having on others and on you?
I cannot stress how unfathomably important it is to walk carefully in life. It is way to easy to fall into a bad thought pattern. You can destroy yourself and not even realize it. Everything in your life is influenced -- directly or indirectly -- by what you believe. By what you focus your thoughts around and what you bend your thoughts to.
And everyone has a thought matrix of some kind. Everyone has a system of belief. Even atheists fall under religion because they avidly disbelieve in a God.
I encourage everyone: Know what you believe, why you believe it, and what it does both to you and others. The first step in anything is discernment. Whatever you believe in or whatever thought matrix or religion you examine, remember that wisdom is known by her children.
Good and bad, regardless of their appearance and regardless of your perspective, are always known by their effects.
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Lol yea so others always think I’m pretty emotional … (well I’m not sure what exactly it means there but here the word ‘emotional’, based on the literal definition in terms of Chinese, means the response of a person is dramatic. When you’re upset, your sentiment will be extremely upset as well, not even reasonably in correspondence but progression) haha XD lol luckily I don’t have any emotion-related symptom haha
Try to find any good in something that’ seems to be bad?! Whao it’s like an impossible task but it does make sense! I haven’t thought of that before … where did you learn this my friend?! Yea I know this is true but the problem to me is .. it’s pretty hard to do … it requires stamina. But anyway for sure I will try to do ‘cause … I want to get rid of the confinement of the sadness so that I won’t be easily defeated by those senses. ^^
Haha you sound like you’re a student in a university here ^^ haha you’re interesting my friend but anyway I thank you much and hope that it’s what you said anyway ^^ I did ask an instructor here and he told me how much I scored right now was actually reachable to apply some concentration I wanted to pay attention to. He said I didn’t have to be worried much ‘cause the result I got wasn’t actually that bad and it’s just that I was pretty fussy haha XD anyway, I won’t be underestimating anything and I will take everything serious regarding my GPA after all it may help make a great determination.
Lol haha actually please do forgive me when I’m telling you something frankly. I don’t’ know much the true love here. I even am not sure whether it’s something about true love amid her and me this time I’m not sure and I don’t’ even know how to prove it’s true or not that it’s true love … I’m sorry to say this but actually I’m not playing or joking … I just don’t’ know what to do … it seems … I don’t seem to love her as much as she does … I’m sorry *sighs* … it’s complicated to reveal much more here ‘cause … well there’re still many things not well known … so far …
Lol yea you’re right at least I can sense if there’s anything wrong or there’s anything not really normal. So I’m not one of those people who’re actually dramatic lol … yea at least I do think I’m still kinda normal … though somehow a little bit blustery as you said haha XD
You mean you don’t let them complain when they do wanna tell you what happened but you’re just not doing so by heart?! I mean you do that because you wanna let them know there’re actually some other things good for them but it’s just that those people’s eyes are covered with the ordeals and bad encounters ahead?! It seems to be my case lol .. thank you … that I know what you wanna tell me in this way ^^ but well anyway let’s move back to that point first … I wanna know if they, the people whom you advised after they wanna complain something to you, would know of the truth why you said that kind of things as a halt put on their complaint? I wanna know if you’d finally be ‘forgiven’ by the people lol haha
Oh my … my friend you know what today I talked to one of my friends who will be heading the PR field in her studying career … she scored 3.92 out of 4 in this semester while I scored less than 3.50. This time it once again lets me know how far I am from the goal … anyway … getting near to the goal means still not reaching the goal … this is after all the truth. To be frank, desperation comes again as you can see it clearly in the today’s weblog … yea the 19th Feb one … *sighs* everything’s dramatic …
Like what I said last time, I don’t know if this time it’s the true love thing. What I can figure out is that I don’t look I like her as much as she likes me … I’m sorry to say that I know this is indeed some kind of disloyal and irresponsible speech … but it’s true I don’t wanna tell lie … so far I don’t seem to love her so much actually … but I’m still trying to let the concentration of loving her increase possibly …
You know what somehow I just don’t like the way she responses … I know in the opposite way it’s still the same that I know there’s something I do she doesn’t like … but well let me talk about my perspective towards her first … I don’t’ know why she always holds some kind of thuth that she’s always the correct one … like whenever she tells me something about conflict between her and her family you will for sure know that she does share part of the obligation ut from her speech you will only see that she thinks she’s absolutely correct. This is nonsense but I just can’t tell her that she has something done wrongly … I don’t know how to begin that thing, to let her know that … I mean, if I’m doing so, she will probably think that I don’t let her complain at all …, perhaps kinda similar to the cases there you have with your friends.
Oh when we were talking about the criticism … I recall a course I’m currently taking in this semester that’s know as the Performing Art Appreciation. ^^ lol you know what my friend, the instructor told us to be getting to know how to appreciate things even when there’re pretty a lot of bad things in the art … it’s kinda a hart job you know?! It’s easy to criticize others and it’s a little bit hard to know how to appreciate others. However, it’s much harder when you’re asked to appreciate something where it seems there’s not much stuff to be appreciated in the art. It seems you’re asked to appreciate bad things lol … but haha for sure it’s not the case anyway ^^
Oh yes there should be no exaggeration on anything, disregarding it belongs to a good thing or a bad one. That is, when it comes to this, then speak of this without any faulty content – no more and no less. I learnt that from catechism as well, when we the catholics are asked to form a group and discuss something related to the belief and the morality with regard to personalities. It’s true and most appreciative. So … yea I will also try not to have any exaggeration anyway. ^^”
I don’t know… it seems not natural when I’m with her … when we hug each other it seems it’s not that normal … I mean … whenever she wants to hug me, she does that in public area, and something I can sense is she does that because she wants to show others something I don’t know … I’m not gonna estimate but it’s just my thoughts. There’re many things when we do with each other not at all natural and out-of-mind. I mean, it’s like mechanical, and unsophisticated. It’s weird. This is what I can say.
Haha good questions my friend ^^ of course I’m pleased to reveal those to you. Well why am I always comparing my grade with others? The reason is simple. Everything in the academic stuff is to be done by comparison. When you’re better than others, you will receive a higher grade. There’s no systemic rank, or fixed standard to evaluate a student’s performance but by comparison amongst students themselves. Therefore, you just don’t have any choice but to always compare yourself with others to ensure that ou have attained certain level of academic qualification. This is the system here we students have to deal with. Therefore, you can say it’s pretty inhumane and atrocious here … =_=”
As for the forth questions, did you remember why I said the academic things were pretty important to me?! If I can achieved certain qualifications, I can firstly get the eligibility to reach the scholarship, so as to lessen my family’s burden … I wasn’t born in a rich family, but I love my family so much. If I can be promoted to a university that’s well recognized by the whole society, I can have a good job with optimistic salary. If I can have such salary, the life will be better and my family will no longer have to be suffering the harshness of earning lives. I hope this will not annoy you anyway ^^”
it’s alright my friend you didn’t offend me at all and it for sure takes long to offend me anyway haha XD anyway I still have to thank you for letting me know of the truth somehow that I should have looked at the case in this way. I will try to think in this way again as well. And well speaking of which the people who’re getting arrogant and forgetful about God when they’re getting more successful, yea we should always remember that it’s God who gives us all the thing that we’re now acquiring. We shouldn’t forget anything that God gives us when we’re getting successful. It’s not just our own effort paid to have things accomplished but God who gives us the pre-occupied capital that can serve as the medium for development. That is, it’s all the gifts from God that we start to and can do things successfully. ^^
well lol I guess it’s better for us to put a halt on the thing about my loving thing it’s pretty annoying lol I’m sorry I mean I just don’t wanna talk about it anymore right now … haha so how’re you my friend?
I’m not so sure about that kind of things according to the catholic bibles … yea you remember there’s something I have to learn from you most apparently? That’s reading the bible lol … that’s why I’m not so sure of the exact episodes in the bible regarding the incident. Oh but well … what I wanna say is … some of my friends even told me that it’s possible to marry Jesus Christ. I’m not so sure of the case as well. Again it’s kinda weird to say so you know why?! As a Catholic here I just can’t first of all accept the idea that we human can be friends with God and secondly we can marry Jesus Christ. It’s just nonsense. I’m sorry if it offends but I still wanna say it’s kinda blasphemous.
For God is the Lord (lol I don’t seem to speak anything haha ) of universe, how come we can do this thing with God? It’s just not sensible. But whatever the case is I wanna know if this thought has spread there in the states.
Haha Camps of Satan, well I love this name lol … so be prepared to be in that camp then? Lol so you don’t even have to worry that you will be given no chance to stand in a battlefield ;cause you’re actually standing in it in your college lol … and y’know what I’m also doing the same thing here. Of course I don’t cherish it at all, despite it’s indeed the last semester I will be spending in this college. *sighs* it’s just dreadful and oh my god … lol I guess I’d better go there and visit you to be your comrade in arm so that we can defeat the enemies together XD